Drug Use @ The Baths: Part 2 How pervasive drug use is among gay men continually blows my mind. Many of these men can function, hold a job, and maintain relationships with others. All the while, they are on some form of narcotics during the day. It is not marijuana or poppers that get consumed.…
Making The Connection For men who go to the baths, it is not just about sex. It is the need for gay men to connect with other gay men. It is about making a connection. Why is there this need to make a connection with someone? One word – loneliness: Or rather a subconscious feeling…
Body Vs Race Why is it that the gay community considers very young and bone-thin Gay White Men Abercrombie and Fitch? But Gay Asians with a similar body type are undesirable and worthless? In America, gay men have an attraction to white European-type men EXCLUSIVELY. Ironically, those Euro guys are far more receptive to different…
Bathhouse Drunks As I have written, most guys go to the baths to get laid or socialize, to make that connection. Some men go to the baths because they are the loneliest people on the planet. These are truly lost souls. There are many, and I am one of them. Not victims, but guys who…
Sex With Clothes On While many gay men love gay baths, there are just as many men scared of the tubs. Those that have never been to a bathhouse are unsure about what lies on the other side as it is so unknown. As it can be a bit intimidating. So, this is the most…
Being Homeless At The Gay Baths The weather has been crazy, and those who dismiss global warming as a myth are clearly in denial. The past couple of days have been below –10. We have gone from one extreme (hot drought in the summer) to the other (frost in the winter). This cold weather has…
Looking To Get Laid At The Gay Baths. The number one reason guys go to the baths is to have sex; that concept hasn’t changed. What has changed is the intensity and drive of some guys to fuck or get fucked. It is an all-or-nothing attitude. These men want an ass to fuck, or they…