Open Relationships There comes a time in any long-term gay relationship when a change is needed. While a couple can love one another and not imagine a life without each other, the sex can get stale. In short, a couple must have new sexual experiences outside the relationship. To try new things, experiment, and get…
Been There Done That Being a bathhouse regular, you repeatedly meet and see some of the same guys over and over again. With some men, you can be friendly. With others, you can acknowledge and give a nod or a sign of recognition. Then there are those you ignore. Being ignored by other men is…
Christmas @ The Baths One of the unique aspects of a bathhouse is the hours. You can go at any time, 24 hours a day, seven days a week. The baths are even open during the holidays. As a veteran of the tubs, I have gone on Thanksgiving, Mother’s Day, Easter Sunday, and Xmas Day.…
Gay Porn The one thing constant in most bathhouses across North America (other than all the easy sex) is that each establishment has a room designated for viewing gay porn during the lull moments at the baths. The typical porn room features a TV with couches or chairs for men to sit on. As I…
Making The Connection For men who go to the baths, it is not just about sex. It is the need for gay men to connect with other gay men. It is about making a connection. Why is there this need to make a connection with someone? One word – loneliness: Or rather a subconscious feeling…