When Desperation Sinks In Many men have different reasons for going to a bathhouse. While most men go for easy and quick sex, a few go for different reasons. You may be one of those men who go to relax, unwind, and escape from the world. However, after an hour or so at the baths,…
Accessories You would think the only thing coming between you and a hot guy at the baths would be the towels both of you are wearing. However, you will often see guys wearing more than just their towels to get extra attention, known as accessorizing. At the baths, you want to impress other guys with…
Pride Day At The Gay Baths For any gay man, summer is a reason for celebration. Not only is the weather warm and beautiful, but it is also when most North American cities host their Pride Day festivities. We have made significant progress. Since Pride Day generally falls on a Sunday, many in the gay…
My Tenth Anniversary It occurred to me that I will be celebrating ten years of going to the baths – my tenth anniversary this month. Wow, I cannot believe it. The past ten years have flown by. At age 31, I realized that I would have spent one-third of my life walking the halls of…
Eye Contact As you stroll down the street, the eye of a man catches yours. You don’t pause to continue the gaze with a nod and a friendly smile; instead, you keep walking. While grocery shopping, your eyes meet another guy’s briefly before you look away. At the gym, there were so many guys with…
Making The Connection For men who go to the baths, it is not just about sex. It’s about making a connection—the desire for gay men to connect with other gay men. Why is there this need to make a connection with someone? One word: loneliness, or rather, a subconscious feeling of isolation. Despite the strides…
Body Vs Race Why is it that the gay community considers very young and bone-thin Gay White Men Abercrombie and Fitch? However, gay Asians who have a similar body type are often viewed as undesirable and worthless. White European-type men are the primary attraction for gay men in America. Ironically, European men are generally more…