Racism Or Preference? The first two entries were to lay down a foundation for these stories. Right now, I’d like to tell you a bit about myself. Even though I am in my thirties, I still look a decade younger. Whenever I meet someone new, the first question is, “What are you taking in college?”…
The Politics of Oral Sex The number one sex act performed at the baths is oral sex; you see it everywhere. So much oral is going on in the whirlpool, the shower area, and the lounge. It is prevalent to see oral sex performed out in the open. It is so commonplace that it seems…
Tricks of the Trade The minute I saw him, I knew his motives. He had blond hair, blue eyes, and a gorgeous physique. I would peg him to be in his mid-twenties. Unlike the rest of us cruising the baths, he was not completely naked. However, he was shirtless, wearing his pants just loose enough…
Prime Timers It does not matter what time of day or night it is. It does not matter what the weather is like outside. It does not matter if a hundred or just a handful of guys are at the baths. You will always find this particular “type” at the tubs, no matter when one…
Real Men Cuddle The gay baths are not known as a place for their niceties. Nor is it a place to find a boyfriend. It is a venue for quick and anonymous sex, so guys go to the baths. The more times they can have sex and get laid, the better. So don’t expect to…
My Tenth Anniversary It occurred to me that I will be celebrating ten years of going to the baths – my tenth anniversary this month. Wow, I cannot believe it. The past ten years have flown by. At age 31, I realized that I would have spent one-third of my life walking the halls of…
Making The Connection For men who go to the baths, it is not just about sex. It is the need for gay men to connect with other gay men. It is about making a connection. Why is there this need to make a connection with someone? One word – loneliness: Or rather a subconscious feeling…