Looking To Get Laid @ The Baths

Looking To Get Laid At The Gay Baths.

The number one reason guys go to the baths is to have sex; that concept hasn’t changed. What has changed is the intensity and drive of some guys to fuck or get fucked. It is an all-or-nothing attitude. These men want an ass to fuck, or they want their hole plugged – Period.

It is a real obsession for these men to fuck, either giving or receiving. No foreplay, no oral, and no kissing. Drop your drawers, spread your legs, and let’s get this humping started. Of course, the Internet has made hunting much more accessible. Or has it? There is so much game playing online that you could spend an entire evening just trying to connect with someone without success. You spend more time negotiating the act of hooking up rather than fucking. You often end the night empty-handed, even after chatting up a storm all night.

It’s why baths are a much better option than going online. It gives guys instant gratification. You see what you like, and you go for it. Instantly you know whether or not something is going to happen. You can always move on to someone else if things don’t pan out.

If you are not picky about fucking any ass or getting fucked up the ass, then you’ll have plenty of choices available at the gay baths. It explains why so many guys lie face-down on their beds with a pile of condoms. Or lying in a sling, legs spread wide apart, waiting to get their loose hole filled. Any cock up the ass will do. It is a buyer’s market for guys looking to fuck, provided both parties are not fussy.

The same goes for oral sex. Where else can you go and suck off as many dicks as you want? Or where you can get sucked off over and over again. All by pushing your cock through a glory hole. There is even something called a ‘slurp ramp.’ Picture an entire row of holes with cocks sticking out. You can go from cock to cock, slurping across the ramp.

But let’s get back to anal sex at the baths. Though all this freewheeling sex sounds fabulous, the reality is most gay men are pretty discriminatory about what goes up their asses. You could be the most fantastic fucker on the planet. But if you didn’t hit the genetic lottery, no one will give you a chance in a bathhouse environment. It is all about looks first and technique second.

Because you will find so many guys with just having a fuck on their minds, it almost becomes a predatory game to them. Laser-focused obsession for that ass to drill or that cock to take. You’ll notice that these guys are the ones that are not very friendly and unapproachable. They are at the gay baths not to socialize. But to fuck and then go home.

While it can be flattering to be cruised by these intense guys, don’t kid yourself. They are not hot for you as a person; they want your hole. You are a passable fuck to them; that is all they want. You are nothing more than an object, something to fetish, to get off on. Devil’s advocate would say that both parties are using one another. However, in my experience, that is not the case. If you are both satisfied, you are using each other for gratification. But if only one is being used to fuck or get fucked with, that is a one-way street. No matter how you slice or dice it, you are being used for someone else’s sexual gratification. It’s not a great feeling.

You will often discover someone’s true motives after the fact. That is typical, where hardly any communication happens before sex. Eye contact between two guys does all the talking. The guy looking to fuck will quickly turn things around to his advantage. Before you know it, you are bottoming or staring at a guy’s ass, waiting to fuck. Many times guys give in, thinking after fucking we’ll start talking. But that doesn’t happen. Once the fuck finishes, the guy gets up and leaves. No thank you, no kiss goodbye, or even an acknowledgment. That is typical because you were nothing to the other person. You were just a fuck, and you served your purpose.

There are certain things you can do to avoid this trap. First, never go back to a room with a guy before knowing what will happen. Communicate and ask him what his preferences are. Always try to get the upper hand. Have him be very clear about what he wants and what he likes to do. Take a pass if he wants to get fucked, and you don’t do anal. Even if he is drop-dead gorgeous, it is not going to work. You might think you’ll change his mind once you get him alone in a room. But that won’t happen. He is there for a specific reason, and it will not work if you have different needs. Second, the guy could always lie and say what you want to hear. But once in the room, you quickly find yourself in a doggy-type position. Or you are doing something you don’t want to do. At that point, leave. You don’t owe him any explanations. Don’t worry about hurting his feelings because you haven’t. He will find someone else.

So while I have waxed nostalgic about how wonderful it can be to meet new people at the baths, most stalk the halls and hunt for a fuck. Any fuck. So be careful about that. If you take away anything from this, take away the advice someone gave me long ago. Never do anything you don’t want to do. That advice has served me well.