Looking To Get Laid @ The Baths

Looking To Get Laid At The Gay Baths.

The number one reason guys go to the baths is to have sex; that concept hasn’t changed. What has changed is the intensity and drive for sex. These men want an ass to fuck, or they want their hole plugged—period.

These men have a genuine obsession with fucking, whether it’s giving or receiving. They do not engage in foreplay, oral sex, or kissing. Drop your drawers, spread your legs, and let’s get this humping started. Of course, the advent of the Internet has made hunting much more accessible. Or has it? There is so much online game play that you could spend an entire evening trying to connect with someone without success. You spend more time negotiating the act of hooking up rather than actually fucking. Even after engaging in intense conversation all night, you often end up empty-handed.

That’s why baths are a much better option than going online. It gives guys instant gratification, as you see right away what you like, and then you can just go for it. You know instantly whether or not the sex is going to work out. If things become less than satisfactory, you can leave and look for someone else.

If you don’t care about the appearance of either the top or bottom, the gay baths are a buyers market for you. Perhaps this explains why so many men lie face-down on their beds with a pile of condoms beside them. Alternatively, they may position themselves in a sling with their legs widely separated. They are eager to get their hole filled, no matter what the guy looks like. It is a buyer’s market for guys looking to fuck, provided both parties are not fussy.

The same goes for oral sex. Where else can you go and suck off as many dicks as you want? Or getting sucked off repeatedly. And all you have to do is push your cock through a hole (aka the glory hole). There is even something called a “slurp ramp.” Picture an entire row of holes with cocks sticking out. The giver can effortlessly transition from one cock to another, slurping their way across the ramp.

But let’s get back to anal sex at the baths. Although the idea of unrestricted sexual activity may be appealing, the majority of gay men are quite discriminatory regarding their sexual pursuits. Even if you possess the best topping technique on the planet, no one will give you a chance if you didn’t hit the genetic lottery. It is all about appearance first and technique second.

These men are playing a predatory game. They have a laser-focused obsession with drilling someone’s ass or taking their cock. You’ll notice that these guys tend to be aloof and unapproachable. They are not there to socialize. They are there to screw someone’s ass.

These intense men may notice you, which can be flattering, but their interest lies solely in your body. They don’t see you as a person; their only attraction is your ass. You’re a passable fuck to them, and that’s all they want. They see you as nothing more than an object to fetishize and enjoy. Devil’s Advocate would argue that both parties are exploiting each other. However, in my experience, that is not the case. If you are both satisfied, you are using each other for gratification. However, if only one party engages in sexual activity, it becomes a one-sided relationship. Regardless of the perspective, you are the object of someone else’s sexual pleasure. That is not a wonderful feeling.

You will often discover someone’s true motives after the fact. That is common for the baths, where hardly any communication happens before sex. Eye contact between two guys does all the talking. The guy looking to fuck will quickly turn things around to his advantage. Before you know it, you’re bottoming or staring at a guy’s ass, waiting to fuck. Many times, guys give in, believing that after we fuck, we’ll start talking. But that doesn’t happen. Once the fuck finishes, the guy gets up and leaves. There was no thank you, no goodbye kiss, or even an acknowledgement. That is typical; you were nothing to the other person. You were just a fuck, and you served your purpose.

There are certain things you can do to avoid this trap. First, never go back to a room with a guy before knowing what will happen. Communicate with him and ask about his preferences. Always try to get the upper hand. Have him be very clear about what he wants and likes to do. If he wants to fuck your ass and you don’t do anal, take a pass. Even if he is drop-dead gorgeous, it is not going to work. You might think you’ll change his mind once you get him alone in a room. But that won’t happen. His purpose is clear, so if you have different needs, it won’t work. Second, the guy could always lie and say what you wanted to hear. But once in the room, you quickly find yourself in a doggy-type position. Or you are doing something you don’t want to do. At that point, leave. You don’t owe him any explanation. Don’t worry about hurting his feelings because you haven’t done so. He will find someone else.

So while I have waxed nostalgic about how wonderful it can be to meet new people at the baths, most stalk the halls and hunt for a fuck. Any fuck. So be careful about that. If you learn anything from this, remember a piece of advice that someone once gave me. Never do anything you don’t want to do. That advice has served me well.