Why Gay Men Go To The Baths All these bathhouse stories probably have you asking, “Why do I spend so much time at the gay baths?” That is a fair question. This essay will clarify why so many gay men (me included) spend so much time at a gay bathhouse. The bathhouse scene is a…
Judging A Book By Its Cover Just recently, I was waiting for public transit. Then I saw this guy. He was six feet tall, with sandy brown hair, a narrow nose, clean-shaven and clean-cut. He wore pressed jeans, a gray pullover, Dock Martins, and a varsity-type jacket. My guess is he was thirty. He had…
Straight & Bi Married Men At the baths, watching men cruise each other for a hookup is enjoyable to observe. One of my favorite pastimes is sitting in one of the busiest hallways, seeing all the men pass me by, and focusing on their left hands. Why? I like to see how many wedding rings…