When Desperation Sinks In Many men have different reasons for going to a bathhouse. While most men go for easy and quick sex, a few go for different reasons. You may be one of those men who go to relax, unwind, and escape from the world. However, after an hour or so at the baths,…
Accessories You would think the only thing coming between you and a hot guy at the baths would be the towels both of you are wearing. However, you will often see guys wearing more than just their towels to get extra attention, known as accessorizing. The importance of accessorizing is the impression you want to…
Pride Day At The Gay Baths For any gay man, summer is a reason for celebration. Not only is the weather warm and beautiful, but it is also when most cities in North America host their Pride Day festivities. We have come a long way. Since Pride Day generally falls on a Sunday, many in…
My Tenth Anniversary It occurred to me that I will be celebrating ten years of going to the baths – my tenth anniversary this month. Wow, I cannot believe it. The past ten years have flown by. At age 31, I realized that I would have spent one-third of my life walking the halls of…
Eye Contact You walk down the street and catch some guy’s eye. You do not stop to continue the gaze with a nod and a friendly smile; you continue to walk. Grocery shopping, your eyes meet with another guy briefly before you look away. At the gym, so many guys with so many eyes. But…
Making The Connection For men who go to the baths, it is not just about sex. It is the need for gay men to connect with other gay men. It is about making a connection. Why is there this need to make a connection with someone? One word – loneliness: Or rather a subconscious feeling…
Body Vs Race Why is it that the gay community considers very young and bone-thin Gay White Men Abercrombie and Fitch? But Gay Asians with a similar body type are undesirable and worthless? In America, gay men have an attraction to white European-type men EXCLUSIVELY. Ironically, those Euro guys are far more receptive to different…