Rice Queens
(aka Potato Queens)
(Continued from page 2)
Hustlers
Then you have the white hustlers. They know that they're irresistible and can make good money off GAM. If a GAM can't get a cute GWM in the sack, then they seem to have no qualms about paying for one! At times it feels like a vicious cycle of desperation. We are all chasing after something. The Prime Timers are chasing after the Asians. The Asians are chasing after the cute white guys (and when that fails, they pay for a hustler). And the hustlers are chasing after both the Prime Timers and the Asians, for cash. Is it any wonder that I REALLY try to stay away from that bathhouse.
Rice Queens
But I'm saving the best for last. The white guys truly attracted to Asian men - the Rice Queens. Hip-hip-horray, a white guy my age interested in Asians. Where do I find them? Well first off, these men make-up about .01% of the gay population, and they are hard to find. But they are out there, and some of these young Rice Queens are mighty fine. Seriously if you were to see these good-looking, masculine, Rice Queens you’d swoon too. But here is something you may not realize. Those good-looking WHITE Rice Queens don’t identify as gay, but as bi-sexual. They have a very narrow, specific Asian they are targeting. Bone-thin. Anorexic looking. Super-smooth skin. Those are the qualities these die-hard Rice Queens are looking for. And if you don’t fit in that mode, forget it. You might as well be invisible, like you are to the rest of the GWM population. These so-called Rice Queens are in fact looking for someone who is feminine, but with masculine features. They want to body worship an Asian's body, (kiss, suck, etc) just like they would a female's body, but someone with masculine features. Almost like someone looking for a trans person, same concept. And these Rice Queens seem to be caring, sensitive, and loving. The white guy every Asian is looking for. Unfortunately most of them are just looking for an Asian to lay, and not looking to take anything further.
You maybe reading this and saying to yourself “Ok fine. He's using me, I'll use him right back.” But do you really want to be someone's fetish? A play thing someone is using and objectifying like a pair of shoes?
I do get a bit irritated when a guy comes up to me and says 'Na Ho Ma?' As if the guy saying that, expects me to be swoon all over him; simply because he knows one Chinese sentence. At this point in my life, I don't know if I could be with someone who is a Rice Queen. Viewing me as an object who is submissive, subservient and a bottom. I want someone to be with me, because they are attracted to me, as a person not as a race. But that might not be so easy. My feeling is if you take the very small percentage (less than 0.1%) of gay men who have some sort of attraction to Asians and break it down; you can come up with this statistic. About half of the men have an attraction Asians to satisfy some weird 'fetish' they have. They are attracted to you as an object. Not the looks or the personality of the person. The other half are men over sixty-five or weigh 350 pounds that can't score anywhere else. So they resign themselves to Asians, since an Asian guy is better than no guy. Then you have the rest of the gay community (99.9%) that has zero attraction to Asian men.
I think I'm going to be single and dateless the rest of my life.
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